Acting was not what sold Shahrukh Khan. As an actor he did manage to establish his talent but by and large it has been his charisma and his image that people loved. I believe the same was true for the previous king Amitabh Bachchan. He wasn't the best looking guy and I think that he wasnt the best actor either. But he was the king because he had the personality and self-confidence. His voice, his diagloue delivery, his walk and his presence, everything exuded style. People copied that style, they became fans of the style. Shahrukh grew up admiring that style too and when his time came he brought his own for others to follow.
Starting his career from theater, he always considered himself and entertainer rather than a great acting talent. He came from humble beginnings and lost his father at early age. He was brought up by his mother. She always believed in her son that he would be number one, he was the best. His father himself went to Mumbai in an effort to become an actor. But he was not acknowledged and he was too proud to stand in the line for extras. He wasn't here to become a "struggler".
Shahrukh's style of acting was full of energy and enthusiasm. He liked Amitabh and he liked style. In college he was part of a gang they called the C-Gang. They even has their own gang dress code. This gang was hardly involved in usual gang activities and was primarily a means for, style. In Shahrukh's early successes like Baazigar and Darr, his obsessive and intense style was loved. In later successes like Dil Wale Dulhanya Le Jain Ge, Dil Tu Pagal Hai, Kuch Kuch Hota Hai, his lover boy style was loved. With movies like Don and Devdas, he tried to bring a new image to screen and succeeded both times. His life wasn't all success, as it never is, but he made most of his ability with little expectation and a lot of self-confidence.
Shahrukh came to Mumbai looking for his girlfriend Gauri and standing at the beach he said that he will own this city one day, he did that. He met Gauri when he was eighteen and she was four years younger. He being a Muslim boy and she a Hindu girl was not a good match but they liked each other and with the help of friends the relationship bloomed. She came to Mumbai to get away from him because he proved to be possessive to the point of being suffocating. He came after her, not planning to let go that easily. In this city where he hardly knew anyone and did not know where she was staying, he found her at the beach because he knew she loved to swim and instinctively he tried to find her there after trying everything else. That probably tells about his life in general, he has been a person of instinct rather than cold logic.
He came to the movie scene at the right time when India was going through liberalization and the markets were opening up. There was demand for style and he provided it with the help of some friends he found in the industry like Aditya Chopra and Karan Johar. His climb was slow and he was not the over night success that you expect. He was also not consistently successful. Still he represents Bollywood and Bollywood's name is synonymous with him. From Raju he really became a gentleman.
The book by Anupama Chopra a film journalist brings a definitive biography of Shahrukh Khan with details that introduce you to the person behind the image. I particularly liked her style of writing and found it both engaging and entertaining. Though I suppose it has been written with a woman's sensibility so you are introduced to the fact, a number of times actually, that SRK, as he is known, can cry. Starting from his father's story and his ambitions to how his mother held her ground after him, to how he found work in bollywood to how he became a god-like figure. From being haunted by the mafia, to Devdas to being and becoming the King Khan who represents the ambitions and aspirations of a newly liberated India.